Westerners have come to associate Tantra with Sensual Erotic Massage - however that understanding has evolved on this side of the planet, that’s indeed what I do in my studio. I am certified in Tantric studies, meditation and breath work, along with many other disciplines related or closely tied.

All my Tantra massages are breath guided, chakra inspired, and involve edging. I offer some two way touch at my pace and discretion, for a truly slow, immersive and connected experience.

I come from a background very diversified in all kinds of somatic work. So when you book me, you get a blend of traditional techniques, with the sexy erotic elements you’re looking for in a sensual provider. And let’s be real: while we’ll go deep, the conversation will be easy and fun. And should you wish, I’m not adverse to sharing a drink with you afterwards, in my fully stocked bar in my studio. You are after all, booking a good time!

I offer some two way touch, at my pace and discretion for a total immersive experience. I also make house calls to your 4-5 star downtown hotel, also for a custom fully immersive experience.

I am fully present for each minute we are together, and my joy comes from watching you engage, relax and truly lose yourself in pleasure.

I am in my early 50’s, am 5’10 tall and while curvy, I am strong and muscular. I have no implants, piercings or tattoos. I am a natural 36DD, 29 waist, 39 hips. I enhance my natural long red hair with a bit of copper fire, and have hazel-green eyes.

I have been in various somatic worlds for over 25 years, and have studied in Canada, the US, Europe, Costa Rica and many parts of India. I now combine my massage and Tantric certifications with elements of Sports, Lomi Lomi, Deep Tissue, Reflexology, Muscle Release and Meditative Healing Touch (Reiki - Shoden level) massage. And, I’m experienced in Buddhist meditation, Vipassana, Pranayama breath work. Beyond my studio, I was a dancer, burlesque entertainer, a former fetish model, yoga instructor and certified IFBB bikini pro. I’m completely fluent in French and English. I’ve had five decades on the planet; I bring a little bit of everything to our time together, but mostly compassion, my full attention and a genuine interest in you.

I maintain a lush, private and intimate massage studio of my own, downtown, though I’m happy to make an incognito appearance at your 4-5 star hotel downtown, and that carries an extra fee.

Being open to a genuinely grounded and authentic experience with me is a great beginning.

Your concise and respectful emails between us makes me eager to meet you.

Sending ID first is required, and once I confirm receipt of that and set a date, a deposit is next. (More on that in the How to be a Stellar Guy section ;-)

Once ID and the virtually collected deposit is out of the way, we are booked. I send out an email the evening before, with all the details you need.

On the day of our encounter, paying close attention to your hygiene is appreciated.

I love spending time with all kinds of people, and am happy to see you regardless of race, age, body type, gender or ability. Just note that my table has a weight limit of 275 lbs/125 kilos and improvisations must be made.

Deposits are to secure my time with you. It is required for every booking with me. If we are booked, that time is all yours. I have planned and prepared for you and only you. If you cancel within 48 hours, I do not scramble to schedule someone else. I lose that time. That is why the deposit is not only required, but a non negotiable.

Why do I insist on your ID? I need to know who you are for obvious safety reasons. It is also non negotiable. (More on that in the How to be a Stellar Guy section below)

There’s a few wonderful things you can do when you communicate with me. You keep your intro respectful, short and with all the details, and you make sure you’re not asking questions to which the answers can be easily found on my website. I’m all about bringing the energy and excitement to our in-person meeting, not emails.

Your identification is for my safety and peace of mind. It’s also to make sure you’re not my neighbour or my insurance broker. Yes, both of these have happened, and I refused the booking without telling them why, and kept their secret, secret. Your ID is going no-where but in front of my eyes. If you have a problem sending it, you clearly don’t respect my boundaries already, so please don’t waste my time messaging me. When a date and time has been settled on, you may send these along.

You are booking a genuine, elite experience with me. Be sober to enjoy it to it’s fullest.

Your hygiene is probably the biggest determining factor to my wanting to get close to you. If you haven’t vigorously scrubbed all skin surfaces and all crevices with soap and a washcloth, strangely something many don’t seem to do, you aren’t truly clean. Remember, I’m rubbing your skin, so make it sparkle please. :-) And nail care, teeth, grooming in general are also a must. You’d think these rather off-putting details wouldn’t be necessary to bring up here, and I really wish it wasn’t necessary to bring up. But you’d be surprised at just how common this problem is, even with the young, older, wealthy, the athletic, the successful. Blame your mother, blame chronic lack of time, I don’t know, but it’s a very real issue. So, don’t give me a reason to hold back with you!

Thanks for reading this. I’ve found these things are integral to making a great experience between us. I’m extremely easy going and my demeanour is calm, light hearted and sensuous. If you’ve made it easy to book me, I’ll make it a great experience for you, I promise.

And if you’re feeling generous, I do love gifts! https://throne.com/sofiasomer

Every session I offer is rooted in Tantric principles. Massage, Red Tantra, my own creation BondaZen, and my work as a Domme all flow from the same foundation.

My Domme sessions can move into harder terrain or remain soft, slow, and sensual—the choice is yours, and I move fluidly to meet it.

What surprises people most? A Domme can be commanding and tender in the same breath. Spice and softness aren’t opposites in my world—they coexist beautifully. If that intrigues you, I invite you to visit my other site and discover that balance for yourself.

https://www.dommesofia.com/